Tulisan 22 (Softskill)

Rape (Incest)

Crime is a symptom of social that grow and develop in the community since ancient times until now. The development of a crime that happened through various mass media information, whether printed or electronic, or when we read crime statistics found an increase in crime rates in the community. An increase in crime rates is not only happening on an increasing number of quantity or crime, but also an increase in the mode of techniques and tactics in doing evil.

Lively preaching about the occurrence of crime and notes on criminal statistics, have not been able to deliver any type of crime happens. That is, there are still many crimes occur which are not reported or not successfully detected by mass media, the dark figure of crime (dark number of crime) so that a known crime has not shown any real number.

Besides non-conventional crime, in the development of the daily life of conventional crimes also occur, for example, crimes against property (theft, embezzlement, extortion, fraud and others), crimes against the body and the soul, such as murder, assault, and others as well as various types of crimes in the field of morality.

In general the occurrence of crimes is very detrimental to society, particularly victims of crime. One of the types of crime that happened a very adverse and troubling the public, is the criminal act of rape, more tragic again when the rape was committed within the family itself (just call it sexual violence/rape/Incest blood).

Incest is sexual relations between two people or siblings who are still related relationship blood. Act of incest is not a purely female problems, but problems that must be faced by the whole community. While the impact of incest against the victim, the victim's position, also cornered the sacrifices of being humble, shy, traumatic, even the load of suffering victims will not be gone for good, so that it does not cover possible expenses which cannot be borne out that lead to suicide victims or crazy.

Example case: for instance in Lampung, Lampung Post, presents news, (Ap 16 years) who lives in Tanggamus confessed four times, raped by Muk alias Black, aged 43 years and had four children, as the uncle of the victim. As a result the Ap still sit in 3rd grade Jnior High School, pregnant 4 months, Muk not willing to take responsibility.

Rape is a crime that is very unsettling society, once people read or hear news of rape arise anxiety, fear and concern especially for those who have a daughter, so that people attempting to avoid this criminal act. Although there have been attempts to avoid this criminal offence, but the criminal act of rape still happens in public life.

Rape often got reactions from the public, if these events occur on a girl, teen or kids, especially when it happens to blood relatives (incest). As if these events destroyed the future victim, because in general Indonesian people still glorify the value of virginity, this value is influenced by cultural and religious factors. In terms of religion, the marriage is considered to be something sacred, so that victims of rape have tarnished before entering holy matrimony. More than that, never mind do rape, even adultery is prohibited in Islam.

Incest action can be divided to several categories:

1. Incest Pedophilic practice that is done by a father who is not mature his sikoseksual or experiencing sexual difficulties. To satisfy his sexual function related to his daughter.

2. Psycopathic incest is incest behavior conducted a psychopath (psycopat) are considered most people, including her own daughter as a sexual object. Therefore, this kind of incest perpetrators almost never show a sense of guilt for his actions, even likely desperate, do not hesitate to commit rape against someone other than the occupants of the house. Such relationship exists cousin or other relatives.

3. Family incest generated. A father who passively while his wife interrupted keperibadiannya. As a result, life for them bland marriage and children subjected to sexual abuse. The children made ​​their own kind of his father's concubine.

The Causes of The Occurrence of Incest               

One of the causes of the occurrence of a crime (including blood rape) is poverty and misery, that influence the state of the human soul. Misery makes the mind become blunt. Education that is held at home and at school, holding a very important role in shaping the nature of a person. Places of worship were holy places that are able to connect and reassuring the soul between death and living creatures, therefore, lack of education, mental and spiritual or religious can be the basic cause of the occurrence of crimes of Incest. Recklessness offender committing incest is a real ignorance even more without the knowledge and belief is supported by the religious teachings owned.

People still commit crimes because knowledge of the policy is not real to him. Therefore education is carried out at home and at school plays a very important in shaping one's personality, and education are ugly or failure in school and developed in-house will result in the emergence of a crime, and added again to the state of the environment that encourages someone to do crime, including natural circumstances (geographical, and climatological), the state of the economy and the level of civility.

Environmental factors influenced sub-factor in it, which has always played an important role, namely the social and cultural conditions that created the internal and family around the dwelling (marginally), as well as new technological advances such as the effect of stimulating spectacle and habits that do not restrict male and female genitalia , because there is a thought that is very close blood relatives (family), while the old-old accidentally become a habit (addicted) to continue to perform sexual incest, because incest is considered safe enough done and seen no significant resistance, because the child obedience and devotion given to her parents, silent and reluctant to reveal his own ugliness family.

In the perspective of myth: Rape is an act of implusif and driven by uncontrollable concupiscence. The victim was raped by a stranger (no known casualties), the sick soul, which stake out of the darkness. Rape only happens among poor people and not educated. Women raped because both are inviting rape (berpakain skimpy, dress up, look garish teaser and so on). The rape happened in a high risk, such as outdoors, quiet, dark and at night; Women in disguise as it is like to be raped.

But rape was not concupiscence, does not happen instantly. It is the sexual violence and manifestations of power aimed at perpetrators over the victims. Rape is part of the planned actions. Many perpetrators of rape are known well by the victims. In fact, a lot of rape can happen to anyone, no matter the gorgeous or not, all ages, all social classes. Rape has nothing to do with the appearance of a person. Rape can occur in children under age and also on the aged. Almost half of the number of rapes occurred in the home of the victim, disiang day. Rape victims never feel pleased and hoped no rape. Trauma because the rape is hardly gone from life.

Observing what is described above it can be seen rape occasionally occur solely sourced from the actors themselves, which is driven by uncontrollable lust, but sometimes also influenced by the appearance of the victim offender raises passions. From the point of the victim, rape does not only happen in adults, The children are victims of crime than the perpetrators of rape rape by officials as well as the unemployed, people who have not known or sometimes people who are very close relationship with the victim, even though incest

The Kind of Rape

Rape can occur in many different types; types of rape by Steven Box, as quoted Made Darma Vedas namely:

"Sadistic rape" is rape is sadistic. The actors get sexual satisfaction not for intercourse, but because the act of violence against "ganitalia" and the body of the victim.

"Anger rape" rape as an expression of anger done with physical properties. Sex becomes a weapon and in this case not getting sexual pleasure. Often intended to humiliate the victim's wishes.

"Domination rape" rape is committed by those who wanted to show his power, an employer who raped his subordinates. There is no intention to hurt him. His desire is to have them sexually.

"Seduction turned into rape" rape is characterized by the relationship between the perpetrator and the victim. Rarely used physical violence and there is no intent to embarrass. The target is the satisfaction of the perpetrator and the victim blamed herself for his equivocal.

"Exploitation rape" is a rape in which the woman is very dependent on the perpetrator of both social and economic. Often occur where the wife was forced by her husband. Even if there is agreement not due to any sexual desires of the wife, but often for the sake of domestic peace.

Impacts of Rape Victim

Physical impacts are: asthma, suffer from migraines, insomnia, pain during intercourse, sores on the lips (lesion on lipcaused by scratch), sores on the genitals, bowel trouble, injuries to the chin, genital infections, the possibility of can not bear children, venereal disease, infection of the hip and others.

Mental impact is: very scared of being alone, fear in others, nervous, often surprised, very afraid, be very careful with strangers, it's hard to trust someone, do not believe anymore in men, fear of sex, others do not feel like it, emotionally cold, hard dealing with the public and friends, hate anything, isolation, fear, nightmares, feeling the world is not as beautiful as expected.

The impact of personal and social life: abandoned close friends, feeling betrayed, the relationship with her husband deteriorated, do not like sex, can not fall in love, hard to build a relationship with a man, afraid to talk to him, it is difficult to believe or really love, avoiding every man , against the hate-offender.

Women victims of rape are not uncommon especially the unmarried, mental shock. Shocks the soul is what makes rape victims sometimes scared, anxious, nervous, irritable, ashamed, feeling abnormal self, cry when reminded of the event and tend to shut down.

Incest victim gave birth pains that are not simple. Pressure disappointments, conflicts and concerns are not resolved, such as ignoring their surroundings, always overshadowed by the things that seemed to threaten him, raised a strong sense of depression.

In general it can be concluded that the victims of incestuous rape (incest) is an alarming crime victims. The suffering of the victim can be categorized in three forms, namely physical suffering, mental anguish and suffering both personal and social. Physical pain or suffering experienced by victims of materiel, there are physical injuries, both serious wound in the victim's vagina or abrasions or bruises on other parts of the body (due to coercion). Psychological suffering is fear, shame, guilt, self-esteem feel they have no longer feel anxious or worried about his future. Personal suffering and social impact not only on the victim, but involves a large family (nuclear family) close friend in his life abandoned, betrayed, or an incestuous relationship with her husband deteriorated, do not like sex, can not fall in love, hard to build a relationship with a man, afraid to talk to him, it is difficult to believe or really love, avoiding every man, against the hate-victim offender with blood though.

The Qur'an does not mention specifically about rape, but more focused on adultery, whether done as they liked by both parties or due to force someone to commit zina (rape). Meaning if there is evidence that the pregnancy was due to rape women, then it is not subject to hadd her adultery. While the penalty is imposed against the rapist, the rapist is there the same was married or not.